Really, just take your own admission and run with it. You don't, or rather, you said, 'can't', understand how so many anarchists and feminists (i.e., people), tout bdsm as hot or liberating.
Some people have no sense of humour, and can't understand why things are 'funny'.
Some people are asexual and can't understand the appeal of sex at all.
You can't understand bdsm. That's okay. It's 'difficult' for you to understand how people can feel differently than you about this. Okay, so either seek to open-mindedly continue to observe and contemplate, or give up trying to understand it, because you don't get it. You just don't. And it's okay to admit that, but there is really nothing positive about what you've written here, as it comes from someone who doesn't, and possibly can't, understand it.
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